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Lately, it seems, we cant avoid hearing, seeing or reading about more incidents of aggression and hostility. Violence has infected the very tapestry of our lives. In our homes. In our schools. And with frightening regularity, violence seems to have firmly anchored itself in workplaces and organizations across the nation such as the recent incident in Atlanta brokerage firms. Combating violence is a three step process: Magnitude & EffectsAccording to the U.S. Department of Justice the workplace is the most dangerous place to be in America. The problem is so pervasive that the Center For Disease Control has classified workplace violence as a National Epidemic. In fact, workplace homicide is the fastest growing category of murder in the U.S. And homicide is now the leading cause of on the job death for women (and second leading cause for men). However, the real danger (and staggering cost in both human and financial terms) is the mountain of physical and verbal violence, of which murder is just the peak (representing only 0.1% of the 1 million victims of physical workplace violence / year). Notice that instances of verbal violence are 6 times that of physical violence. 1 in 4 workers are attacked, threatened or harassed each year, costing: Aggressors & VictimsWho are the perpetrators of workplace violence? Over 80% are male, usually white and over 30. Though news accounts would lead us to believe otherwise, only 3% are former employees (20% are current employees). Actually, over two thirds of physical and verbal attacks come from strangers (e.g., during a robbery) or customers. This is especially the case for male victims. Women are more likely to be attacked by someone they know. For example, domestic violence spillover is the fastest growing category of workplace violence. Whos at greatest risk of workplace violence? Anyone in a job that involves extensive contact with the public, especially if limited attention is paid to customer satisfaction. (Witness the increasing accounts of airline passenger rage.) Also, anyone working in markedly bureaucratic organizations where limited attention is paid to employee satisfaction. (Its no accident that postal workers more than any other occupation have "gone postal".) In this context, supervisors and managers are particularly at risk: employee boss murders have doubled during the past ten years. Can potential aggressors be identified? Yes they can! In fact, 85% of workplace violence transgressors showed clear warning signs that they were "loose cannons". GHR Training Solutions has developed a Formula for Workplace Violence that we call: POSTAL: Profile of potentially violent persons: Observable Warning Signs: (often newly acquired negative traits) Shotgun: (not required for non lethal violence) Triggering Events: (the last straw, no way out, no more options): Thats how to predict it. Organizations can prevent employee initiated violence during the hiring process (e.g., through careful interviewing and background checks). For the existing work force, they can use a combination of benevolent, motivational management practices, a zero tolerance violence policy (effectively communicated and enforced), employee training, and appropriate use of counseling, EAP referral and disciplinary action plus sound security measures. But how can employees protect themselves and their coworkers when faced with a hostile, potentially violent non employee (e.g., a customer)? They can call on the POSTAL carriers traditional nemesis: DOGGS: Defusing Of Grievance Grants Safety Visualize a big balloon thats about to burst. The balloon must be gradually deflated (rather than punctured) by confirming a persons perspective (without agreeing with it). Here's how you do that: [ Much of the following was originally formulated by Larry J. Chavez, B.A., M.P.A. of Critical Incident Associates.] 1. Understand the mindset of the hostile or potentially violent person The person has a compelling need to communicate his grievance to someone now! Even if he is wrong, the individual is acting on perceptions that are real to him. In the overwhelming number of cases, the person just wants fairness. 2. Practice "Active Listening" Stop what you are doing and give the person your full attention. Listen to what is really being said. Use silence and paraphrasing. Ask clarifying, open ended questions. 3. Build trust and provide help. Avoid confrontation. Be calm, courteous, respectful and patient; open and honest. Never belittle, embarrass or verbally attack a hostile person. 4. Allow a total airing of the grievance without comment or judgement Make eye contact (but dont stare). Allow verbal venting of emotion. Let the person have his say (not necessarily his way). Ignore challenges and insults dont take it personally; redirect attention to the real issue. 5. Allow the aggrieved party to suggest a solution A person will more readily agree to a resolution that he helped formulate. And it might surprise you that the persons suggestion may be very reasonable. 6. Move toward a win win resolution Preserve the individuals dignity. Switch the focus from what you cant do toward what you can. With the persons permission, call in additional resources e.g., supervisor, Human Resources, Employee Assistance Program, Security, or Police. Eliminating violence in the workplace should be a top priority for every executive, manager and team leader. And if your organization hasnt experienced this issue yet, be glad. Do not, however, be content. Rather than doing nothing or waiting until a serious act of aggression occurs in your organization, get proactive by training your team to eliminate violence before it happens. GHR Training Solutions specializes in giving your management team and employees the information they need to avoid becoming another statistic. As one of the nations leading authorities on workplace violence, harassment prevention and employee retention, we offer customized training programs, workshops and executive sessions ranging from one hour to several days. Sheryl & Don Grimme work with organizations who want to protect their people from the devastating reprucussions of violence in our homes, schools and workplaces. As leading experts in the field of training, the Grimme develop customized solutions for their clients. Copyright Sheryl & Don Grimme. All rights reserved.
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